I’ve been on both sides of this. At Stats NZ, at ANZ, I sat in rooms where hiring decisions were made, and I listened to managers explain, without much discomfort, why certain candidates had filtered themselves out before the conversation even started. Too old. Too expensive. Too set in their ways. I filed those observations away as a feature of how organisations work, the kind of thing you absorb without examining closely when you’re on the side where it doesn’t cost you anything. I never thought I’d be the person they were describing.
Then Te Pūkenga restructured, and I found out what the view looks like from the other direction.

What made that redundancy different wasn’t the experience of losing a role. I’ve navigated that before, and so has anyone who’s spent a career moving through organisations. What made it different was the scale of what arrived at the same time. New Zealand’s unemployment rate was rising. SMEs were closing. Retail strips were emptying. Office blocks across Auckland and Wellington sat vacant. The government had already signalled it was disestablishing Te Pūkenga entirely. Geopolitical pressures were moving through GDP numbers, and GDP numbers were moving through hiring decisions, producing fewer roles at every level, not just at the top. A single professional or individual contributor role could attract 200 to 300 applications or more. These weren’t forces I could network or position my way around. When conditions compress that hard, across that many variables at once, you stop asking what you did wrong and you start asking what is actually happening.
What is actually happening, it turns out, is not what the advice industry says.
At one of the career transition forums that came with the redundancy package, I raised ageism directly. The coach running the session disagreed. Ageism is a myth, he said, because experience is value and the market rewards it. His prescription was presentation: revise the CV to be value-focused, strip graduation dates and anything older than 15 years, reframe long tenure as transferable skills, apply for roles one or two ranks below where you were, consider fractional or part-time arrangements to make yourself more affordable, offer reduced hours to lower the risk for potential employers. I’ve since seen the same prescription in outplacement guides, HR publications, YouTube channels aimed at “professionals in transition,” and LinkedIn posts about managing redundancy over 50. The advice is consistent across all its sources. It travels well because it sounds reasonable, and because it gives people something to do while they wait for the outcome to change.
The outcome doesn’t change. The advice is solving the wrong problem.
The moment you walk into an interview room, the CV has done its job and stopped mattering. The panel sees you, not your document. Your age is in the room whether your graduation date is on the page or not, and the panel’s response to it has already formed before you’ve opened your mouth. If the panel is younger, which it usually is, their assumptions about what you represent have been running since you came through the door. Older applicants move more slowly. Older applicants are set in their ways. Older applicants have seen too much, and “I’ve been there, I’ve done that, this won’t work” reads as obstruction in an organisation that needs to believe it’s trying something for the first time.
The irony is plain once you see it. The pattern recognition that comes from 30 years of watching the same decisions play out, which is the thing you’re supposed to be selling as value, is exactly what reads as resistance to someone who hasn’t yet sat through the cycle. A younger hiring manager who hasn’t watched a rebranding exercise fail twice, or a restructure reduce headcount without changing anything structural, or a digital transformation stall in precisely the way the last one stalled, cannot easily distinguish between an older employee who is obstinate and one who is simply right. And here’s the part that makes this genuinely hard: they may never know the difference, because every generation of employees has to learn certain lessons by living them, regardless of what the previous generation already knows. The pattern recognition is real. The inability to transfer it is also real. So the panel defaults to the safer assumption. You get filtered out, and the exit is labelled overqualified.
Overqualified is a polite word. In most of the cases I’ve experienced or observed, it doesn’t mean your experience exceeds what the role requires. It means the panel has run a calculation that won’t survive being said aloud. You might leave once something better surfaces. You might be harder to manage if the manager is 15 years younger. You might not adapt quickly enough to how the team prefers to work. None of those concerns appear in the feedback, because none of them would survive a formal grievance process. Overqualified covers them cleanly, and the conversation ends there.
A better CV doesn’t reach any of this. Perception doesn’t change in a 45-minute interview, regardless of how well the transferable skills are packaged.
Some advice goes further. Career coaches recommend working personal networks, reaching out to contacts who might know of opportunities, letting people in your industry know you’re available. I understand the theory. But what I’ve found is that professional relationships don’t carry the weight that word “network” implies. The people you work alongside are colleagues while you share the same floor. Once you leave, most of that contact fades, and fades faster than most people want to admit. And where a genuine relationship does exist, a peer-level contact inside another organisation has limited reach. The hiring decision sits with someone more senior. A peer’s recommendation rarely travels far enough up the chain to change what the panel has already decided, especially when that panel is already running the calculation I’ve just described.
Applying a rank lower doesn’t escape it either. A junior role attracts more applicants, not fewer, both younger candidates and older ones in the same situation as yourself, and the same cost and perception logic runs again, except now you’re competing against people who represent lower salary expectations and carry none of the assumptions that follow seniority. The advice to lower your sights is framed as widening your options. In practice, it narrows the corridor and adds more people to it.
What surprises me is not that the advice fails. What surprises me is how long the mechanism has been running without anyone naming it cleanly.
At Stats NZ, I had hiring managers tell me, without lowering their voice, that certain candidates were too old and had effectively removed themselves from consideration. This wasn’t a crisis conversation. It was a routine observation, offered the way you’d note a missing qualification, and then the meeting moved on. At ANZ, I watched older employees, some past their own stated retirement age and still contributing meaningfully, get quietly sidelined before restructures arrived. The restructure wasn’t the cause. The sidelining came first, and the restructure was the instrument. In both cases, the organisation wasn’t responding to any particular economic event or technology disruption. It was running a function it runs continuously, as a matter of normal operations, well below the level of deliberate policy.
Ageism is the current word for that function. The word is useful in the sense that it gives people a shared language for an experience that is real and measurable. Research confirms what many people already knew from inside it: people over 50 face lower callback rates and higher rates of underemployment than their credentials alone would predict, and the gap is consistent across OECD countries. But the word also carries an implication I find misleading, that this is a problem generated by contemporary conditions, one that could be addressed through better hiring practices, stronger legal enforcement, or, as the coaches would have it, a more strategically constructed CV.
The function predates the word. Organisations were running it in the 1990s, in 2005, in 2015. What changes across those periods is the economic context that makes it more visible to more people at once, and the vocabulary available to describe it. The function itself is stable. It’s closer to an immune response than a crisis, the organisation’s natural mechanism for cycling through generations of people, managing cost and perception thresholds in ways that rarely get said plainly. Like most immune responses, it operates below the level of deliberate decision-making. Nobody sits in a room and decides to discriminate. They make a series of smaller judgements about fit, energy, risk, and cost, and the accumulated weight of those judgements produces a consistent result. The result has a name now. It had the same shape before it had the name.
The coach who told me ageism is a myth wasn’t lying. He was describing the system he believed he was operating in, one where experience carries value, the market is rational, and presentation determines outcome. That version of the system does exist in certain organisations, for certain roles, under certain conditions. I’ve seen it. But it is the exception, not the default. The default is what I watched at Stats NZ and ANZ before I had any personal stake in understanding it, and what became undeniable during the Te Pūkenga redundancy when every economic force in the country arrived at the same moment and left very little room for alternative explanations.
I’m not writing this to argue that older employees should stop applying, or that the coaching advice fails in every situation. I’m writing it because there’s a real cost to explaining a structural function as an individual presentation problem. When the mechanism operates at the level of the organisation and the advice operates at the level of the CV, the only explanation available when the advice doesn’t work is that the individual didn’t execute well enough. Try harder. Polish the story again. That conclusion suits the system perfectly.
I’ve been on both sides of the table. I know which side has more information.

